Frequently Asked Questions

Families often come to us with similar concerns when starting the divorce, custody, or estate planning process. Below you’ll find clear, straightforward answers to the most common questions we receive.

Divorce Mediation FAQs


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  • How long does divorce mediation take in California?

    Most divorce mediation cases are resolved in 2–5 sessions, depending on how complex your situation is. Couples with children or significant assets may need more sessions, but even in these cases, mediation is far faster than court proceedings. Learn more about our Divorce Mediation services.


  • Do I still need a lawyer if I use mediation?

    Mediation helps you avoid expensive litigation. While you don’t need a lawyer for the mediation itself, some clients choose to have an attorney review their final agreement. This is optional but can provide additional peace of mind.


  • Is divorce mediation legally binding?

    Yes. Once your mediated agreement is filed with the court, it carries the same weight as a court order. Our team helps handle the filing process so you don’t need to appear in court.

  • How much does divorce mediation cost in Monterey County?

    Mediation is typically 50–70% less expensive than a litigated divorce. Costs vary depending on the complexity of your case, but most couples save thousands by choosing mediation over hiring two separate attorneys.

Custody & Parenting Plan FAQs

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What does a parenting plan cover?

A parenting plan sets out clear guidelines for co-parenting. It typically includes:

  • Custody schedules (weekdays, weekends, holidays)
  • Vacation and travel arrangements
  • Decision-making responsibilities for education, health, and activities
  • Rules for communication and co-parenting expectations
    Learn more on our
    Custody & Parenting Plans page.

Do parenting plans made in mediation hold up in court?

Yes. Once finalized and filed, mediated parenting plans are legally binding in California courts.


Can custody mediation be done remotely?

Absolutely. We offer secure Zoom mediation for Monterey County families, allowing parents to work through custody issues even if they live apart or have scheduling conflicts.


How long does custody mediation take?

Most custody agreements are resolved in 1–3 mediation sessions. Complex cases may take longer, but the process is still much faster and less stressful than litigation.

Estate Planning FAQs


Q: Do I need both a will and a trust?
A: Many families benefit from having both. A
will names guardians for children and ensures your wishes are followed, while a living trust helps your family avoid probate and maintain privacy. Learn more about Estate Planning services.

Q: How often should I update my estate plan?
A: We recommend updating your estate plan every
3–5 years or whenever major life changes occur, such as marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or purchasing a home.

Q: What’s included in a living trust?
A: A living trust manages your property and assets during your lifetime and provides for a
smooth transfer of ownership after your passing. It helps your loved ones avoid probate court and keeps your estate matters private.

Q: Can estate planning cover multiple homes or businesses?
A: Yes. Trusts and wills can be customized to include
vacation properties, investment real estate, or business assets, which is especially important for families in Monterey, Salinas, or Carmel who own multiple properties.

General FAQs

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What areas do you serve?

We provide mediation and estate planning services across Monterey County, including Monterey, Salinas, and Carmel  and more.

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Do you offer remote mediation?

Yes. We provide both in-person and virtual mediation services for families who prefer online sessions.

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What are your office hours?

We’re open Monday–Friday, 9 AM–5 PM. Our office is closed on weekends.

Still Have Questions?


If you don’t see your question here, we encourage you to reach out directly. Every family’s situation is unique, and we’re here to provide answers tailored to your needs.


📞 Phone: (831) 216-8800
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Email: lbogene@dwdignity.com
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Office: 484b Washington Street, Monterey, California 93940, United States

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