About Monterey Divorce Mediation

Meet Lori Black Ogene

Divorce and family transitions are deeply personal. That’s why Lori Black Ogene, J.D. has dedicated her career to helping families in Monterey County.


She guides clients through challenges with care, professionalism, and respect. Lori is a lawyer and certified mediator. She provides a reliable divorce mediation service.


This service helps families talk openly and reach fair agreements. Her calm and organized approach makes the divorce process less hostile and more amicable.


At Monterey Divorce Mediation, her goal is simple. She wants to help families solve their problems in a respectful way. This approach helps keep relationships strong. It also helps create better futures for everyone involved.

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A Career Dedicated to Families


Lori’s professional journey reflects a deep commitment to supporting families.

With more than 20 years of experience in Florida courts, she understands the emotional and financial toll of litigation. In 2010, Lori founded Divorce With Dignity Monterey, offering a compassionate divorce mediation approach that promotes collaboration and mutual respect.

After returning to Monterey in 2018, she decided to focus only on divorce mediation services. These services help families find peace during tough times.

Lori believes every family deserves a respectful, affordable alternative to traditional divorce. Her strong knowledge of the courtroom and mediation process helps her give balanced, practical advice. This advice truly supports her clients' best interests. Families trust her with divorce, custody, and estate planning matters, knowing she provides guidance grounded in care and professionalism.

Education & Credentials

  • Juris Doctorate, cum laude – Southern University Law Center, Baton Rouge, LA (1992)

  • Bachelor of Arts, Print Journalism – Southern University and A&M College, Dean’s List (1989)

  • Certified Mediator – since 2015

  • Florida Bar Admission – 1993

Professional Recognition & Awards

Lori’s commitment to excellence has been recognized with multiple honors:


  • Outstanding Performance Award – 2nd Annual Regional Child Welfare Conference (2007)

  • Shooting Star Leadership Award – Department of Children and Families (2007)

These awards highlight her dedication to child welfare, leadership in family law, and unwavering commitment to supporting families during transitions.

Services & Specialties


Lori's Monterey Divorce Mediation  services are to support families with dignity, collaboration, and care:


  • Amicable Divorce
  • Divorce Mediation
  • Paternity & Custody Actions
  • Child Support
  • Pre- and Post-Marital Agreements
  • Adoptions
  • Name Changes
  • Wills & Living Trusts

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Testimonials from Clients

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⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ “Lori was incredibly helpful with the divorce process! She made everything clear, affordable, and less stressful. I couldn’t have asked for a better guide during such a difficult time.”

– Samantha D.

Why Choose Lori for Divorce Mediation in Monterey


Choosing a mediator is a decision that affects your family’s future. With Lori, you benefit from:


  • Cost savings compared to the high fees of litigation.  She offers quality mediation services at a cost a fraction of traditional litigation fees.
  • Faster resolutions than drawn-out court cases.
  • Confidential sessions that protect your privacy.
  • Reduced conflict, promoting cooperation and healthier family relationships.


Lori also offers remote mediation options via Zoom for clients who prefer the flexibility of virtual sessions.


Lori has a strong legal background and is well-respected. She combines professionalism with empathy in every case.

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Take the first step toward a respectful, dignified resolution.


📞 Phone: (831) 216-8800
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Email: lbogene@dwdignity.com
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Office: 484b Washington Street, Monterey, California 93940, United States

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